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The Healing Power of Movement
“The single most important issue for traumatized people is to find a sense of safety in their own bodies.”
-Bessel van der Kolk
Today you’re in for a treat! I’m bringing my pal Koula Callahan, master yoga instructor and speaker for the Self-Care Workshop, on the blog to share why movement, namely yoga, is incredibly powerful and important for us to practice as we move through our days. If you’ve always wondered what all the fuss is about yoga —and why it is really effective, today is the day—you’re going to get some answers.
Let’s dive right into my chat with Koula!
1) KG: So how does movement help regulate/process emotions?
KC: Movement is a critical part of the healing journey. So many of us forget to incorporate and listen to our bodies as we try to process emotions and hardships and we wonder why we keep feeling stuck. There’s a reason though — our entire life’s story is stored in our cells and in our body tissues. And each part of the body shares with our brain the responsibility of memory. In fact, our bodies store more information than our brains do. So if we try to process our emotions only by accessing our brains, we miss out on an enormous amount of “data” stored in our bodies that actually helps us more than our brains do. Movement helps us tap into that reservoir of “data” and develop a more integrated approach to processing emotions.
2) Why yoga? What’s all the fuss?
KC: Gosh. Yoga is so freaking helpful for so many reasons. Aside from being a killer workout (long lean muscle development!!), it’s the only movement practice that focuses on presence and awareness first. A lot of people think that they “aren’t good at yoga” because they aren’t flexible. That is so not true. It’s not about flexibility, it’s not about strength, it’s not about whether or not you can touch your toes. The physical practice of yoga is all about connecting with yourself and bringing the mind, body and spirit into union with one another. Focusing on presence and awareness from moment to moment makes the practice a moving mediation. I think that’s what’s hardest about it. You have to face the truth of what’s really going on with yourself. And you also get killer abs and triceps :)
3) KG: Why should we be practicing yoga?
KC: Yoga reduces anxiety and stress, helps us sleep better, regulates our hormones, flushes out our organs, boosts our immune systems, etc, etc, etc. The benefits are tremendous. Honestly though, I suggest practicing yoga with consistency because it keeps you grounded in a time when everything seems chaotic. This simple, practical tool is available to everyone to help us stay calm and balanced regardless of what might be going on in our lives or families.
4) KG: Why is yoga so important to you as a teacher and participant? How did you come to find it?
KC: My yoga practice has been the through line of my life as an adult. It’s the tool I rely on most to “self-regulate” my emotions regardless of what’s going on around me. When I come to my mat, it forces me to get present and simplify things that I have made way too complex in my life. When sh*t hits the fan in my life, my yoga mat becomes my little sanctuary where I can pay attention to how I feel and nourish myself. I really do notice when I go a few days without it — my sleep is off, I’m more irritable and less kind to myself. I love teaching for many reasons, one of which is what I learn from my students and their willingness to show up fully. It’s beautiful to experience the sense of connection that a yoga class creates and it really does fill me up when I get a chance to teach. To be a good teacher I believe I have to be a student first, and I’m grateful for what each one of my students teaches me.
Thank you, Koula! You have enriched my life and so many others by your passion and ability.
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How to Beat the Winter Blues
“These useless days will add up to something. They are your becoming.
- Cheryl Strayed
It’s a broken record at the moment. I can almost expect it both in conversations with friends and clients every single day. Chances are, if you’re living in Nashville, you’ve thought it or said it out loud yourself. I’m guilty as well.
Drumroll, please?
“This weather is KILLING me!”
Sure, it’s January. What else should I expect but cold grey stretches that make me want to hole up, listen to Bon Iver circa 2008, drink excessive amounts of coffee, and write for hours in my journal?
There’s good reason for this. The weather directly affects how we feel physically and emotionally and can wreak havoc on our overall experience in fall and winter months.
I used to experience heightened levels of anxiety and depression every year when clocks fell back and the sun quit her day job at 4:30pm. My motivation went on strike, healthy habits skipped town, and the feeling of loneliness was pervasive.
Finally, I got desperate enough and took matters into my own hands. I began advocating for my mental health because I knew no one else would. Through personal research, therapy, and challenging my normal behavior each year, I landed on some powerful tools that supported a more hopeful experience when the winter blues started creeping in.
For starters, Seasonal depression is slang for Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD…aptly). It’s not simply “depression light.” It’s a subtype or specific kind of major depression that is symptomatic with the changing seasons, especially in fall and winter.
There are obvious and not so obvious reasons for SAD. The ones we all agree on are simple though: with less exposure to sunlight during the fall and winter months, our biological clock can often get pummeled, leaving depleted levels of serotonin, a brain chemical that helps govern and boost our mood, and melatonin, that gorgeous stuff of sleep.
If you experience a noticeable shift in mood, physical activity, patience for people, energy level, sleep, and desire to participate, keep reading. Likewise, if you are a human being with a heartbeat, keep reading. I have a hunch someone in your life needs your grace and support because they suffer from SAD.
Here are 4 helpful tips I swear by:
1) Routine
Structure is the sensitive soul’s best friend. For me, this means intentionally planning out my days from week to week. In fall and winter months, it’s starting a bit earlier so I can enjoy more sunlight, even just 30 minutes.
When emotions whip us around, assuming their throne in the driver's seat of life, it can be so easy to slip into victim mentality, feeling powerless. Having a set structure, or routine, for our day helps us reclaim the steering wheel.
My morning ritual is everything to me. It allows me time and space to practice the things that ground me like meditation, writing, and reading. In the coming days and months, experiment by putting some new structures into place to facilitate a more ordered interior landscape.
2) Move
Daily Exercise has officially become my antidepressant of choice. Hear me out, antidepressants can be a very helpful piece of the emotional puzzle when necessary. They definitely have for me along the way. However, exercise is one of the most effective and proven ways to improve overall mood and stress levels. Getting a good sweat also helps us sleep more soundly.
It’s tempting to let workouts trail off, but I say we fight for them. Make it a daily routine if possible, like brushing your teeth. This isn’t about rigidity, it’s about shifting our norms to facilitate more energy and vitality. Plus, there are tons of streaming workouts online when we simply don’t want to leave the house. My personal favorite is Tracy Anderson’s Online Studio, a subscription-based method, and Yoga With Adrien, which is a free YouTube channel.
3) Avoid Numbing
I get it. When depression sneaks in, we often lose our desire for the things we typically love to do. We want to isolate, sleep, eat, drink, numb. It’s so much easier, right?
Numbing out may offer temporary relief for our pain, however, we forget that along with the negative feeling emotions, your numbing strategy of choice dulls the positive ones as well. Happiness, excitement, and gratitude are harder to come by and we get thrown right back into the tangled thicket of depression once again.
4) Support
Replace the numbing with support. Identify “safe people” who know and accept you where you are. Make a list of two or three and reach out to them to let them know you’re struggling.
If you don’t have said 2-3 people, a good place to start is therapy. While I’m a big believer in individual therapy, finding a group therapy opportunity may be even more effective. I offer several options and would love to support you in this season. There is absolutely no shame in seeking professional help. It is a courageous act of self-compassion.
Hang in there, friend. Each day we inch toward one more minute of sunlight. After all, spring is simply the payoff for all the deep soul work done during winter. As Cheryl Strayed says, “The useless days will add up to something. These things are your becoming.”
Love & Gratitude,
Katie