Working with Your Enneagram Type

There’s some Enneagram buzz that’s trending these days and I couldn’t be happier about it.  Basically, it’s all about going deeper than a personality typing system and using it as a tool for application and transformation.  

We’re beginning to understand the dynamism of the tool as we put it into practice.  Talk is cheap, but it’s a crucial first step in the process.  We can  sit around at coffee shops and dinner tables exploring the behavior patterns of our type for days.  We can consume Instagram accounts that provide clever content and memes.  And these can be helpful for a time. In some ways, they support us as we identify our dominant type.  Yet, we absolutely must not stay there.  

So, what does it mean to work with our type?  How do we go from the surface of personality to the integration and wholeness this beautiful tool is capable of?  

I believe it requires the desire to fully understand and explore our deeper character structure, dissecting the core elements of our type.  Those core elements include the passion, or emotional pattern that keeps us stuck in type, the virtue, or our type’s unique invitation beyond the passion into our true self, our mental fixation, defense mechanism, somatic profile, as well as the lines, arrows, and wings of our type.   

If that all sounds overwhelming, congratulations…it IS!!!

However, the Enneagram is all about understanding the motivation behind the ways in which we think, feel, and act.   It’s all about identifying and understanding the specific box of personality we’re in so that we can get out, finding freedom in a psycho-spiritual expansion.  

Don’t be bogged down by the intricate web of complexity of your specific type.  The place to start is simple: self-observation.  

Sounds pretty basic, right?  

However, it’s actually quite involved if we commit to becoming a non-judgmental student of ourselves and our  experiences.  

My favorite way to learn self-observation?  Mindfulness and meditation practices.  No matter what your type, developing a mindfulness practice such as meditation is vital for creating the inner space to put self-awareness to work.  When we’re able to do this, we slow down our reactionary impulses and we learn to respond out of choice and empowerment.  We loosen the tense contractions in our bodies as well as practice detaching from self-defeating thoughts and beliefs.   

Perhaps most importantly, we begin to embody compassionate presence—the grounding gift of the here and now.  

Whenever you’re ready to go deeper, working with a coach or therapist  trained in the Enneagram is super supportive.  Is it time to take your Enneagram exploration to the next level? 

Let’s go… I’m your girl.