Stressed? This is for you
Spoiler Alert: Guess what?
There will always be something to stress you out. Life is chock full of reasons. However, we will also always have the choice to lean into it or become enslaved to it.
In light of this, I believe our work is not avoiding stress—it’s learning how to relate to it.
Unfortunately, lots of us proudly (I’m so guilty) tout our epic workloads, deadlines, and lack of sleep around like we’ve just won a Nobel Peace Prize.
Let’s take a quick look at the neurobiology of stress.
First off, not all stress is bad, nor are the hormones stress creates in the body as a result. They ebb and flow throughout the day in order to help us adjust to the stressors of normal, everyday life. Moments like waking up (no joke!), getting to work on time, giving a presentation, getting a traffic ticket, and even being surprised on your birthday all require shifts in our internal ecosystem to stay regulated.
More good news, stress is highly manageable. We’ll look at ways to do so a bit later.
Long-term stress left unchecked however, is a different beast. Our bodies and brains weren’t created to undergo this brand of stress and anxiety. In fact, in as much as we think we’re being responsible and hardworking, we are directly inflicting ongoing toxic wounds on ourselves. This eventually will show in the form of negative, noticeable emotional and physical symptoms.
Neuroscientists at the University of California, Berkeley, have discovered that chronic stress produces long-term changes in brain structure and function. This sheds light on the fact that youngsters exposed to ongoing stress early in life likely will develop mental illness and mood disorders such as anxiety, depression, insomnia, and even learning difficulties.
As a natural line of defense, our adrenal glands produce a hormone called Cortisol when we’re met with stressful situations as part of the fight-or-flight mechanism. With good stress (eustress) these levels balance out once the threat of danger has passed and the body and brain return to normal.
However, in a state of chronic stress (distress), our friend Cortisol has no outlet to release and the body stays locked in this hyper fight-or-flight mechanism. This survival mechanism must be released physically from the body and when it’s not, cortisol levels skyrocket in the blood, declaring war on our mind and body.
The wreckage? Lower immunity and bone density, weight gain, sleep problems, memory loss, learning disability, irritability (duh), increased blood pressure, cholesterol, heart disease, and inflammation throughout the body.
If that list doesn’t convince you, I don’t know what will. Bottom line my friend, we must be vigilant in listening to the needs of our bodies and emotions and practice actively getting them met.
Here are a few helpful tips that will reduce the effects of chronic stress and resulting cortisol levels in the body:
Regular physical activity: I’m an exercise evangelist. This blew past vanity a long time ago as I experienced the direct positive effect daily exercise has on my mood and overall experience. It is my antidepressant of choice. We absolutely must move our bodies regularly to aid the release of cortisol from our bodies and support emotional processing.
Mindfulness practices: Mindfulness practices such as meditation and deep breathing are vital in reducing stress and cortisol levels. Why? They engage the Vagus nerve which signals your nervous system to chill out, slow the heart rate as well as cortisol levels. Next time you’re in the death grip of stress, take ten deep breaths. Panic cannot co-exist with a relaxed state. Click here for a free meditation I’ve created to support you in this practice.
Community: Social interaction is a powerful antidote for stress and anxiety. In fact, human bonding also triggers that Vagus nerve mentioned earlier, relaxing the parasympathetic nervous system. Not only that, social connectivity releases that yummy hormone called oxytocin, which directly lowers the fight-or-flight mechanism. That whole eight hugs in a day thing is real!
Laughter and music: Both are game changers and have been proven to lower cortisol levels. Not only that, but they invite us into the experience of the present moment, the most desirable real estate on the planet when it comes to experiencing more levity and joy.
Last thing I’ll say before I land this plane: we were created to thrive, not merely survive. However, some of life’s seasons require us to dig a little deeper into our resilience tool kit. If you find yourself needing some extra support these days, please reach out. I’d love to support you.